“Daddy’s Got Money!” . . . Bad For You. Worse For Franchisor. Ugly For Daddy. But Happy Graduation!

[at least it did at the time] . . . and so we’re here to buy him a franchise.”

Dad just wanted to help his kid

While Daddy talked, I watched Son, and in this particular meeting, Son demonstrated all the signs of fear and disinterest. Clearly, this was Daddy’s idea and not Son’s. Quite often it happens that way. Dad (or Mom) wants Son or Daughter to achieve success and they are willing to invest money to “help” them.  

It happens the other way, too. It’s Son or Daughter who’s eager to buy a franchise, and they need their parent’s money. 

A trip abroad might be a better gift

My advice: Proceed with caution! Investing in a business may seem like the ultimate graduation gift for your child, but it may turn into a financial and family disaster.

Can I tell you of any success stories where a parent put up money for a son or daughter to buy a franchise?

Many kids do succeed in franchising

Absolutely. Lots of them! Especially of parent and child working together. It’s very common in franchising, and many companies can brag about these stories.

But no one talks about the failures . . . and there are many of them, too. No one talks about them because the deal was bad for the kid who lost money and probably self-esteem; bad for the franchisor who had to work through the issues related to a failing and ultimately failed franchise; and ugly for Daddy because he thought he was doing a good thing and instead lost his money and possibly alienated his child and other family members, too. 

Here’s how franchising works best

Franchising works best when the buyer/operator uses his or her own money, or at least shares responsibility for the money. It also works best when the operator really wants to be the operator and understands what that means. The kid who graduates from college and realizes he doesn’t want to teach after all, isn’t necessarily ready to run a franchise. At least it should be his or her idea!

7 steps that could help you and your kid

If you’re considering putting up money to buy a franchise for your child, here are 7 steps to consider:

1. Ask your child to sell you on why he or she should own and operate the franchise. What’s the motivation? How deep runs the desire? How great the commitment? I know it’s your kid, but be objective! What’s the chance of success? You don’t want your kid to fail any more than your kid wants to fail. 
2. Require a business plan, which you will approve. If running a business is your expertise, it’s okay to help your child create the business plan. Seek other assistance. Local colleges offer courses on creating business plans. Get your accountant involved.
3. Require a payback plan. Charge interest for your money. The Bank of Mom & Dad expects to be paid back. Require to see how you’re going to recover your investment, profitably.
4. Tell your child to go to work for a franchisee. It may be for only a week or three, but getting experience in a franchise unit could prove helpful. Your child may decide, “I don’t really like retail,” or “I don’t think I want to be in the food business,” or, “I didn’t realize how tiring it is to be in a truck most of the day.” This experience may at least help them decide the type of business they want to own and operate.
5. Request an endorsement from a franchisee. Tell your child, “Convince one of the existing franchisees that you’re the type of person who will succeed at this business and ask them to write you a letter of recommendation.” Make sure the franchisee has achieved success in the business! A franchise operated by a parent/child combo would be ideal for this assignment. 
6. Attend Discovery Day. The franchisor most likely conducts free orientations where prospects learn more about the franchise. Go along and participate in this experience. You and your child will learn the details related to operating the business and you’ll be able to assess the likelihood of your child succeeding at this business. It may be difficult, but you need to be especially objective now.
7. If you agree to make the investment, look after the business. Take a seat on your son’s or daughter’s advisory board. Monitor decisions and progress. 

Sound too much like being a parent?

If these ideas seem too restrictive for you or your child, think twice about what you’re doing! Because there’s a pretty good chance that if you don’t take these restrictive measures, this “gift” isn’t going to work out!   

You’re taking a greater risk when you put up the money for someone else to own and operate a business. So protect your money. More importantly: Protect your kid!

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